This morning my eyes opened before the alarm rang to the reality of the next month or so. OK probably it’s going to be six weeks. The pain is subsiding and I’m feeling somewhat claustrophobic and trapped inside my house. After a few days of trying to do things with one nondominant hand, I’m ready to admit to the utter uselessness of that hand for anything other than picking stuff up off the floor. I need some help.
First, I need to find someone to clean my house. I can go through a service. Any recommendations of either a service or a particular person would be most appreciated. I’m not a clean freak but I’ve tried vacuuming with my ultra light stick vacuum cleaner and it might have made an decent SNL sketch. I can’t imagine pulling the sheets off the beds or cleaning the bathroom with one arm.
Second, I’m thinking of getting groceries delivered. Does anybody in Madison do this? Does anybody in Madison use Woodmans to do this?
Third, over the next two weeks or so, we could really use a few dinners. I have stuff in the freezer I can defrost but not enough for the next month. Cutting and cooking anything it’s almost impossible right now. Once I get a real cast on I think I will be able to hold things with my left hand but I don’t know if I will ever be able to do anything with a knife with my right hand and not end up in worse shape than I am already.
Fourth, salads and fresh fruit make up a good part of our diet and I cannot cut vegetables or peel any fruits. Julia is helping out some but I hate to put too much responsibility for food prep onto her. Would anyone consider coming over once or once every few days to cut up some cucumbers, apples, avocados, etc.?
That’s all I can think of for now, but if anyone, who has been through this one handed thing, sees something I’ve clearly missed, please let me know. Thanks for reading, thanks for offering to help. I am grateful that I feel free to ask for this kind of help. I do have an incredible community around me. Love you guys.
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My name is Sarah Dunning, Saturday FUS service. My daughter Olivia is in Coming of Age this year, if that helps you place me.
I heard about your wrist. Ouch! I could bring some food tonight for you to take home. A neighbor gave me a large pasta casserole which I could share, and I could slice up some veggies for you.
Please let me know if this works for you.
I am just seeing this now. I’m sorry I missed you. Thanks so much for the offer.
Suzanne, this is Jen. My phone is dead and I cannot get to any of your information to contact you with my work phone. I am so sorry. I have been in a nightmare haze of trying to get to email accounts to get your info but not remembering passwords and the passwords being sent to the phone I cannot get into…. I will be able to fix things tomorrow. I will call you tomorrow night. Much love.